More family history

On Wed, Jul 30, 2008 at 1:02 PM, Arturo P Roda wrote: Cora I shall work on the music of Come Jesus. The correction in the Lyrics: Breathes now this happy soul Leon's father - Juan [Demaya] Roda; mother - Zumel (family name, I do not know her first name) Juan had a first wife (I do not know her name). The older of the two children was (nana) Victoria. Her oldest daughter was (manang) Juana. The second was a nurse graduate from Chinese General Hospital, Juliana, a very tall woman. The third was Natalia. Her son, Dr. Gabriel Factora was my colleague at Kettering Medical Center for three years. His wife was Dr. Myrna, a Tagala. Victoria's only son was a little guy, Pablo, and the youngest Benita was the smallest. A younger sibling of Victoria was Efren, who migrated to Mindanao. I met him only once. I suspect that the Father Roda from Mindanao was his grandson. Leon's siblings are (in proper order) Sergio (full brother), married to a Tagala from Cavite, (tiya Candida). Their three daughters, Natividad, a nun, Visitacion, organist for a Catholic congregation, and, Fortunata, also a nun. All are retired. Continuing: Alvaro, Antonino, Bartolome, Rosario (was a man, died early, never knew him), and Manuela the youngest was very beautiful (the Zumels were very Hispanic). Antonino lived with us for many years. Later Manuela lived with us also in Baesa before her demise, a victim of tuberculosis. Tata Tony warned me of our family curse (tuberculosis). He observed that our family was short lived. Tata Tony lived to a ripe old age. Bartolome migrated to the USA before I got to know him. He visited after the war. I was a medical student then. He gave me an American Expresss check, not for my tuition but to spend for my pleasure. He was a veteran of the war in Europe, the western front. Uncle

Beginning of Adventism in the Philippines

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dvpbsyNcI3I


Maria Panis and Leon Z. Roda with the first 3 of five children, L-R, Eduardo, Elizabeth and Mercedes

From ARTURO P. RODA to MAR VELASCO
[FANDiscussion - Oct 23, 2008]

A little clarification. Alfonso P. Roda was my brother. Antonino Zumel Roda was our uncle, and proud of it. The third of the three pastor brothers was Alvaro. Our father was Leon Zumel Roda, the oldest of the three. He was a student in Manila when at the age of 16 yrs. he and a Manilan named Bibiano Panis opened the door for Elder L. V. Finster to bring the good tidings of the gospel to my mother's family in Sta. Ana, Manila [1909]. So, you see, the Mother Roda you knew in Philippine Union College, Baisa, was a Taga-Maynila. At age 19 yrs. my mother married the 21 yr. old Leon. At age 23 yrs. my father, along with my uncle Bibiano Panis and Emilio Manalaysay, was ordained to the gospel Ministry in 1916; they were the first Seventh-day Adventist nationals to be ordained in the Philippines.

I grew up in the Manila region, particularly Pasay and Baisa. I did learn Ilocano when our grandfather invited our family to stay with him in Sarrat, a suburb of Laoag City, for one year at the age of 4-5 yrs. because of the recent passing away of my father. [Leon died in 1925, when Arturo, the youngest of his 5 children, was only 2 years old.] When we came back to Pasay I quickly forgot to speak the language, although I can still understand sufficiently, so that, hindi niyo ako maipagbibili.

Alfonso and I and our three other siblings were 2nd generation Adventists.


Standing, L-R: Arturo, Eduardo, Alfonso; seated with their mother Maria Panis-Roda, center, were Elizabeth, L, and Mercedes, R.[Eduardo, the eldest of Maria's children, weakened by disease died within a couple of weeks prior to the liberation of Manila by Allied forces during WW2.]

Our family [the Leon branch] is now in its fourth generation; but, the Alvaro branch is now in its 5th generation.

Three generations of the Maria Panis and Leon Z. Roda family.


Maxima de la Cruz and Alvaro Z. Roda with the first 3 of ten children, L-R, Rebecca, Esther and David.

We just celebrated our Roda family reunion in August [held in San Diego, CA] with an attendance of 110 out of a present family tree count of about 200. Our theme was Rehearsal for Heaven. I have been crowned by some members of the family as their Living Patriarch. I turned 85 yrs. in my last BD. Every opportunity I have, I like to witness for my Savior, Jesus Christ.

Happy Sabbath, and God bless you all.

ART RODA
Mountain View Ave, Loma Linda, CA
...

Oct 24, 2008

Mar here to Dr. Roda:

I praise the Lord for having the Roda clan in His family. May your tribe continue to increase! I heard the name Leon Z Roda as one of those who introduced the gospel in Amarao. The first church building was built there as a result of the ministry of the late Leon Z Roda and company. The church was rebuilt about nine years ago with the help of the son of the late Elder [Roy] Hay.

Your brother Alfonso spoke fluent Ilocano. I was privileged to talk with him first hand regarding the issue of the Santuary doctrine after he came back from a series of meetings in Maryland. Nagsalita pa siya ng Ilocano dahil batid niya na bagong salta lang ako sa PUC at nagugulumihanan ako sa sigalot na likha ni Desmond Ford. He was so nice to explain to me the position of Dr. Ford which as rejected by the GC administrators and theologians because of several reasons.

What I am saying is that you have indeed touched the lives of many people in many ways. I shall continue to pray that you will succeed in your desire to witness for our Savior Jesus Christ in spite of your age. But at first glance, I thought you were only 68 or 69 years old. Belated happy birthday. Naimbag a Sabado.

Mar Velasco
...

On Fri, 24 Oct 2008 11:42:59 -0400 mvelasco01@aol.com writes:
Mar here to Dr. Roda;

Doc, all the while I thought you were brothers with Dr. Alfonso and Dr. Antonino Roda. [The late Pastor Antonino Zumel Roda received a doctorate honoris causa from Southwestern University in Cebu during a Commencement at which time he addressed the graduates as their keynote speaker.] I had the pleasure to meet them when I was very new in the faith. I was first acquainted with Dr. Antonino Roda, a wonderful man of God and well known all throughout Northern Luzon Mission. The first time I heard him speak was in a camp meeting. He spoke with eloquence and I always loved to hear his deep Bacarra like voice. He could speak well in Ilocano, and also Visayan. I was always delighted and encouraged by his sermons to love our Lord Jesus. His "More Than That" story is always treasured in my heart.

Thank you for the nice words for my family. May the Lord continue to bless you and your family.

Mar Velasco
...

Thu, 23 Oct 2008 10:57 pm
ART RODA here to MAR

It was good meeting you. Now I can put a face on your mails. I know I have met you before, but not being formally introduced I could not put things together. I have long wanted to meet you, because I so admired your children. You have such lively Christian family; yes, that's right, lively as well as lovely. Continue to participate in the FAN discussions. I really do not mind the disagreements, as long as we learn to listen to each other. And I repeat this call to all other
participants. We all should learn to welcome the fellowship of believers in different aspects of our day to day lives, and, that includes our continuing growth in grace and knowledge of our Lord Jesus Christ. In due time I shall address this
theme [of the Atonement] more extensively. Thanks. And, greetings to your Family

ART RODA

REMINISCENCES

Our family reunion has come and gone and yet fresh memories still linger on. How I wish it didn't end that soon. The three days we were together were incredibly inspiring!... My family and I would like to thank Betsy, Rose, Ayee, Manang Cora, Auntie Lou, Cheryl, Alvin, Alne and many others for the fantastic job of organizing and leading the event; Auntie Pancing, Auntie Cion and family (you are tops!) for the most difficult task of preparing a full array of delicacies that fed over a hundred mouths several times over; and everyone who came for making the event a treasure-trove of memories.

I thought I'd share with you our diary of activities following the reunion.............

Our maiden trip to California was a welcome treat. Not only did we reconnect with relatives, we also had the chance to visit places we have been hoping to see for a long time.

Las Vegas. That Sunday after the reunion, my family (Ed, Ria, Irene, Apollo, Zack, Trystan and Sheryl) and I headed off to Las Vegas. The six-hour drive was the beginning of a hectic week ahead. Spending three nights and four days in a city that never sleeps was so much fun. Despite the scorching heat that we from this part of the world are not accustomed to, we enjoyed scrambling around the city and taking in as much of what the city had to offer.

Grand Canyon, Arizona. While Irene and family had to go back to Orange County, the rest of us went on a one-day trip to Arizona that took us to the magnificent Grand Canyon. The picturesque view in all directions was like a dream. As we sat and watch the changing play of lights and shadows, we couldn't help but be amazed at God's handiwork right before our very eyes. Such creation is more than an awe-inspiring phenomenon!... And while we took souvenir shots, guess who we bumped into? Sam and Jedd Villanueva and family! What a small world it is.... Much as we were taken by the mesmerizing beauty surrounding us, we decided to drive back to Las Vegas before dark overtook us.

Although Ria and Ed alternated on the wheel, the long daily travels had taken a toll on Ed. Upon our arrival at the hotel, he immediately hit the bed and just slept the night away. After all, he sure needed to rest and recharge before our journey back to California the next morning.

Orange County. Our overnight stay at the Hyatt Hotel made Disneyland very accessible to us. Ria and Sheryl had a great time doing some of the rides. As for Ed, upon seeing the Merry-Go-Round, the child in him came to life and together with Sheryl he immediately jumped in for a ride! That was really hilarious! I was left behind struggling to take a few shots of him... but I wasn't successful. ... In the afternoon, we watched the "Walt Disney's Parade of Dreams", as well as, Billy Hill & the Hillbillies. At 9:30pm, the Disneyland sky came alive with "Remember Dreams Come True" fireworks. The play of multi-colored lights and sounds was such a beauty to behold.... The day's activities got us so jaded we almost got knocked out. But not yet...we had to drive up to LA where we were booked at the Crowne Plaza Hotel for a couple of days. LA. Not wanting to waste any time, we got up early the next morning as we prepared for our next itinerary - Hollywood. Sheryl's friends took us around sight-seeing. Just looking at the names of celebrities engraved in various parts of the Kodak Theatre was enough to pique our curiosity.... Next was a drive to the Santa Monica Pier. Running barefooted on the white, sandy beaches while enjoying the cool, fresh air was magnificence at its best. The feeling was refreshing as it was liberating.

Ed and I met up with Carol late in the afternoon at the Third St. Promenade, a few blocks away from her apartment, which is located in an upscale neighborhood. She was so sweet to take us to a really nice dinner at the Gaucho Grill. (Ria and Sheryl spent the time out with their friends). To save time, we immediately proceeded to Carol's cozy apartment where we freshened up before heading off to Il Moro Restaurant. There we just lounged and listened to the captivating music of a live jazz band.

To cap the relaxing evening, we navigated around Beverly Hills, with Carol showing us famous spots and boutiques and giving us a peak of BelAir.... It was getting late and Carol had to take us back to our van. Much as we didn't want the night to end, we had to say our goodbyes.... And so off back to the hotel we went. (Thank you so much, cuz, for such a marvelous time!).

San Diego. The following morning took us to Ed's relatives at Deer Canyon Place in San Diego. It was also a reunion of sorts since we haven't seen each other for over two decades. The typical filipino in us emerged as we indulged ourselves to food, food, and more food while reminiscing the past. That evening, we were again treated to an elaborate korean dinner, after which we had to go our separate ways.

Loma Linda. On Sunday, Aug 17, Ria and Sheryl flew back to Toronto. It was now time for me and Ed to go fetch my mom in Loma Linda, where she stayed with Auntie Pancing, Leri, Erli and Orville at their beautiful homes. Mom felt so much at home and, as she tells me now, thoroughly enjoyed her short time with Auntie Pancing. I'm absolutely sure this was one moment in her life that will stay with her for a long time.... It was so nice also of Betsy and Rodney to come and see us. The short time we spent together was so precious and I look forward to more times like this. (Thank you, folks, for making our trip to your place a total delight).

Home Sweet Home. After almost two weeks of gallivanting, we departed LA in the early morning hours of Monday, Aug 18 and arrived in Toronto at 2pm. Coming home and getting a warm welcome by our cuddly, half-pomaranian/half-bizon puppy gave our vacation a fitting conclusion.

"Life gives us brief moments with one another.... but sometimes in those brief moments we get memories that last a lifetime...." - Unknown.

Ravadilla siblings: Ria, Ryan, Irene and Alan

Arturo P. Roda, 85th b-day

"Gaano Ko Ikaw Kamahal" by Ernani Cuenco; arr by Nestor Zamora for String Quartet of Nonoy Alsaybar and Gonzales siblings
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xLmBFVJE7x0

Dr Arturo P. Roda singing his own composition on his 85th b-day celebration at Adong's, cor Redlands and Mt. View, Loma Linda, CA., 28 Sept 2008
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v2kSIlhxXaM


The music is indelibly printed in my mind. There should be no problem transcribing it. By the way I composed this music around 1947 while I was at Manila Central University College of Medicine, and I also entitled it then, "Come Jesus"; but, the lyrics did not come until I had my tenure at the White Memorial Medical Center in 1974-75. I was very lonely, and would spend my spare time at the Ampitheatre where there was a piano. The security man was a Filipino, ex-boxer, and even when it was time to close the rooms, he would let me stay on. One night I was inspired, and by morning I had all the lyrics written down with hardly any further alteration to this day. I trust that this piece will be an inspiration to others.


Come Jesus And Abide
By Arturo P. Roda, MD

"Come Jesus, and abide",
Breathes out this longing heart.
"Thy presence by my side,
Sweet comfort does impart."

Bid all my strivings cease,
Tho' pressed by trials sore,
The blessings of Thy peace,
O Lord, in me restore.

O Child of God from wand'rings far,
The Savior welcomes thee.
No longer shall life's conflicts mar
Thy joy of being free. Oh,

"Come Jesus and abide"
Breathes now this happy soul
Praise God, He will provide,
My LORD, my ROCK, my ALL.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Iqhs02pf8e0

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=m_b4BaP4xJg

Look at this Man
Words and music adapted from “Look at the World” by John Rutter
1.
Look at [this man, loving and faithful husband];
[Lolo Turing, he’s my grandma’s little brother.]
[Handsome and smart] so many joys and wonders,
So many miracles along [his] way.

Praise to thee O Lord, for [Doctor Roda];
[Lolo, Uncle, Daddy, b’loved Friend:
[He’s a gift] we share, and [he’s a] blessing,
[Lolo is from] thee.

2.
[Lolo Turing, we praise the Lord and thank him],
[That you have reached the ripe age eighty-five
[You are still sharp
[Full of God’s love and wisdom.
[You are an inspiration to us all:]

Praise to thee, O Lord, for [Doctor Roda
[Lolo, Uncle, Daddy, beloved Friend:
[You’re a gift’ we share, and [you’re a] blessing
[Lolo is from thee.]

3.
Think of [his life, missionary doctor
[In Cebu and in Iligan where he worked.
[Then he came to the U.S.A. and
[Trials came but he proved true to God.]

Praise to thee, O Lord, for [Doctor Roda
[Lolo, Uncle, Daddy, beloved Friend:
[You’re a gift’ we share, and [you’re a] blessing
[Lolo is from thee.]

4.
Ev’ry good gift, all that we need and cherish
Comes from the Lord in tokens of his love;
We are his hands, stewards of all his bounty;
His is the earth, and his the heav’ns above:

Praise to thee, O Lord, all creation,
Give us thankful hearts, that we may see
All the gifts we share, and ev’ry blessing
All things come of thee,
[Lolo is from thee.]

Sanidad Twin Martial Artists (Arnis)

Manang Cora,

Thanks for playing for me on the piano and comments: "Hindi pa rin laos si Orlie!" I just got too emotional that day, and my voice got locked up. This has never happenend to me before:-) Smile. Mabuti na lang my violin was there to back me up. Auntie Pancing asked Mamang to tell me to play the fiddle. Since I already agreed to sing earlier, I just decided to do both. The emotion was probably due to the fact that 40 years ago, I sang the same song in the exact same place (of course, ibang pianist). God has been so wonderful to me and my family, money and healthwise all this years. Praise the Lord!


Alan, Aileen, and Marc Anthony


Picture of my Twins. They went to Califonia two years ago to compete in the Filipino Martial Arts (arnis). They ended up fighting for the top spot. Although neither wanted to be in second place, they both decided to quit in the midst of their vicious struggle for first place. I cried while watching the video especially when they were embracing, consoling and wiping each other's bloody faces. It was a horror to me and I blamed myself for introducing my two boys to this kind of violence.

Orlie Sanidad

I certainly enjoyed the Roda Reunion that I was proud to be married to one of them. There was some sense of direction in that reunion and not just having a party. I felt bad that we missed Alne's sermon. I hope to be in the next one again.

Discovering the Treasures

Photo album compiled by Erli and Orville Cautivar

To view entire album click the URL below:

http://www.mypublisher.com/bookshelf/bookviewer.py?d=cppl%60je%3e3426868-tq%3e2

A family reunion is like a treasure hunt... where we discover the riches we have--the special people that make up our family.

REMEMBER the stories that make our family special.
RECOGNIZE how precious each person is and enjoy their company to the fullest.
RELATE to each other by "really listening" to each other.
RENEW our relationship by just loving them...
THE WAY THAT JESUS LOVES US.

Gift of Choice

The Gift of Choice: The Lives and Times of Leon Z. Roda and Alfonso P. Roda By Consuelo Roda Jackson Published 2003 TEACH Services, Inc. 363 pages ISBN:1572582464 http://books.google.com/books?id=KKOSMjahrB4C&dq=history+of+philippine+union+college&output=html&source=gbs_summary_s&cad=0 Sarrat - Page 83 Two new church groups organized in Sarrat from this evangelistic effort. Antonino was baptized on November 19, 1919, and at once began his own ... more pages: 74 75 82 134 Bacarra - Page 135 They had taken a bus from Bacarra, where they had stopped to visit with his wife's folk. Alvaro shed tears as he embraced his older brother. ...  Hi! Blanchie, Your Roda Reunion report is so interesting that I read it all in one sitting. I felt I was there as I read each event....but alas! I don't know many of them. BTW in the list of the Roda brothers, I recall they had a younger brother named Bartolome whom the Leon Roda children called "Tata Tomy," who came to U.S. as a young man. Is he the same as the "Rosario" in the list? Their "Tata Tony" was Antonino. They also had one sister named Manuela who, I recall used to visit them once in a while. You see, the Leon & Maria Roda were our next door neighbors in Pasay days, and the 5 children from Eduardo, Elizabeth, Mercedes, Alfonso and Arturo, and us Villanueva children were very close friends... Mattie (Mrs. Paz Villanueva-Peng)

Standing back L-R: Leon, Sergio, Alvaro, Antonino;
Seated L-R: Maria with son Alfonso standing to her right, Candida holding daughter Natividad, Maxima holding daughter Esther and son David standing in front, Bartolome;
Seated front, children: Mercedes, (an elder daughter of Sergio and Candida who died at a young age), Elizabeth, and Eduardo.

Reunion Enrichment

hello-all. It was a lifetime memory. I was impressed and touched with all the hardwork and professional event planners as well. To see folks I haven't seen since I was 14 is too long! And great first meetings too. I've been telling my sisters-what a life enrichment. So much deep Christian history, SDA pioneers, and a gathering of substance and family commitment. In other words it wasn't just a party. We are blessed to have Alne, and blessed to have each others connection. I only wish my parents were still here, who are terribly missed.

For those who didn't make it, I felt that it was my duty to share this experience and for them to join us in Toronto. It is a heartfelt tradition that I believe all should partake in. Thank you everyone for making me proud to be in this TREE! I look forward to the next one.

Annie (Arevalo)

P.S. Are we getting a list of contacts? I know everyone's busy...take your time. Need help?

Reminiscences of the RODA REUNION REHEARSAL

I have no regrets at all about attending our REUNION REHEARSAL. Just wished my whole family was there and that the absentees were present. We sure need another R3 (RODA REUNION REHEARSAL) with almost-everybody or better still, everyone present. It was my first time to see some of you - especially from the Sanidad branch; and the first time in several years to see Jojo ( Leon III- last time I saw him was in Baesa when he was a little boy, coming to my Mom's little Kinder school, with Bambam).

I thought seeing Auntie Kathy with Uncle Werner, was very special! And the rest of Uncle David's family. I see Betsy, every now and then, but not Beverly and Greg. I would have loved to see Sandra. Makes me long for heaven more, when I think of our loved ones who are sleeping in Jesus, waiting for His return and the resurrection!

So glad that Uncle Turing's family who are in the US were all present too. The oldest G-3, Uncle Turing (LEON) and the next oldest , Auntie Esther (ALVARO) were "game". Thanks for all the memories shared. And the impromptu orchestra or band, was wonderful! I think we could have a RODA Concert next reunion! And I'd love to hear Megan(Bev's daughter) sing then. I'm sure there'll be additions in our next get-together- more G-6's and spouses of those getting married between now and then. Hopefully, no subtractions.

I also hope you all could meet our Aunts from the SERGIO Branch- Auntie Baby- Sister Inmaculada; Auntie Naty- sister Naty, and Auntie Vising or Bess. They are all retired now, with the 2 nuns at the Religious of the Virgin Mary Home, and Auntie Vising in a home somewhere in Laguna. I will tell them about the REUNION and give them the souvenir magnets when I write them.

Upper/L-R: Aunt Vising (Bess), Sister Naty, Chito G4;
Lower/L-R: Aunt Vising, Sister Inmaculada (Baby), Jonathan G5 at the Religious of the Virgin Mary Home


It was good to hear from Dennis. Hope he and the rest of Uncle Johnny's family can join us in Toronto!

Hopefully, my young cousins, who always mistook me for an Aunt (being the oldest G-4)will now remember I'm Manang Cora. I don't blame you for being confused. I'm even older than one of our Aunts- Auntie Charity. And Auntie Rodel and Auntie Beb are just some months older than I am.

Congratulations and a million thanks again to those who worked hard for the success of the Reunion. Ayee- you started the ball rolling, Betsy- your creative and very meaningful ideas that became a reality especially the BLESSING on Sabbath afternoon; Rose- your sleepless nights, and my, you really made us so welcome and made sure we were never hungry! Auntie Lou- the"one who made the RODA CLAN complete, with your talent for details! You know more about the RODAS now, than most of us! Beryl, we missed you. Thanks for your artistry and the beautiful logo! Cheryl, I'm amazed at all you are able to do on top of looking after your boys! And of course, Alne (our pastor- and adviser( you were the over-all coordinator in the 1999 reunion, I remember) and Alvin - for your last-minute suggestions and making sure these were implemented- thanks for organizing the band, and providing music for the Vespers and banquet!. Uncle Jr. and Auntie Nellie, I'm sure you're so happy for having such children who not only are multi-talented but love the family! Your 3 apos are so beautiful and musical! Pacing and Orly, I'm glad you came to represent your family. Wish the rest were there too. And Orly, thanks for your music. Hindi pa laos! Hope to see your twins and your girl next time. It was good to see Josie again. BTW, some of you may not know it, but I'm related to Paz's hubby too- his Mom being a cousin of my Dad (Eliseo Arevalo). I must not forget Auntie Cion and Auntie Pancing for the fabulous banquet ! But you were so tired! Maybe next time we should hire a non=Roda team to be in charge of food so you can be more relaxed and join all the other activities.

Sorry, I wasn't able to mention all the people I want to thank. There'll be another post for them. This has gotten too long!
Love you all,
Cora/Auntie/manang

G1, G2 , G3 ... G6

L-R: Al, Beb, Charity, Cion, Pros, Esther, Pancing, Turing, Charing, Lydia (in lieu of Ponsing), and Rodel

The other members of the Roda clan that did not find time to go to the Roda Clan reunion on August 2008 have missed an opportunity that would have given them the joy of being together as blood related relatives. Seldom does these occasions happen. Too bad I gave all of you a scare, but I think the cause of my chest pains was from the Italian sandwich that Elma Lou and I ate at a local Italian restaurant. It contained a lot of half-cooked chili which compared to Jalapeno. It tasted good while chewing it but did it give a big uneasiness to everyone when I was talking within your circle about our forefathers: Leon, Alvaro, Antonino = the second generation of Rodas who bequeathed us our heritage, legacy, customs and traditions that were handed down from the first generation Juan Demaya Roda, down to the 6th generations who amongst were noted to be very interested about their pedigree lineage. Something to be proud of and to keep on remembering and passing to the next generation.
To every proud member of the Roda clan that were there, cherish the memories of that occasion and may we see each other again, at Toronto, Canada on 2011

More blessings to those local residents in that area and that I advice you start early. Start with a venue, then estimate how many are coming, reserve placement hotel and then follow it up with program activities. The pedigree Roda clan stories can be repeated all over again for the sake of the 6th and 7th generation who are following. Remember, the interest in this Roda Clan is contagious and I expect a larger Roda reunion in Toronto, Canada.

Pros

Rehearsal for Heaven 2008

by Elma Lou Roda

The awaited for Roda Family reunion had come and gone. It was a good one. We wished there were more in attendance. This write-up is for those of you who missed the reunion, with copies to those who were in attendance.

On Wednesday, August 6, Darrell, Shar and Jaiden took us (Pros and I) to the Reagan-Washington Airport, bound for San Diego. They could not join the reunion because the baby girl has been making it known that she wants to come out now, causing Shar to have contractions now and then – thus, it was not advisable for Shar to travel.

At the San Diego International airport, my sister Emmeline and her husband (Kuya Ben Flores) were there waiting for our arrival. We stayed at the hotel where Kuya Ben works at (which is just about 12 miles away from the Best Western Seven Seas, the main venue of the reunion) which offers daily complimentary continental breakfast. Next day, Kuya Ben accompanied us in getting our rental car. Rodel and Charity arrived Thursday evening and checked in at the same hotel where we were.

On Thursday morning, Pros and I went to the Sheraton hotel where Cheryl and her three sons were staying (Cheryl and family had been in San Diego for one and a half weeks already but too bad Kenton could not stay for the reunion, because of work), then we all went to Manong Tommy and Manang Cion’s place. Their children and grandchildren were there. After lunch, Rose, Cheryl, Mike, Luella, Art and I finished preparing the button name tags, the registration folders and the plastic bottles of water. Siena and Justin helped also. Then Cheryl and Mike left to pick up the T-shirts. As we were leaving to go to the Best Western Hotel Seven Seas, Ate Linda Rivera (neighbor of Ng Cion & Nong Tommy) came to see us but we didn’t have enough time to talk.


Pros and I proceeded to the Hospitality Suite at Room 339 which was the first venue of the reunion. I started handing out the Registration Sheets to be filled up by the attendees, and gave out the button name tags and Registration folders. It was late when we started the first get-together which was a worship service led by Alvin – he distributed printed songs that he compiled and we sang with the accompaniment of Mike Mirasol on his clarinet. Betsy welcomed everyone and thanked those who helped her put the reunion together. Alvin recognized and thanked Ayee, Betsy, Rose, Cheryl and me for our involvement with the planning of the reunion. Cheryl explained the logo on the banner which was designed by Beryl (who could not join the reunion). Beryl used the same colors assigned to the three families during the last reunion 9 years back: In addition to the white “r”, there’s the red “o”, yellow “d” and blue “a” – the last three letters were joined together like rings connected to each other, signifying the unity of the three Roda families of Alvaro, Antonino and Leon, respectively. The theme of the 2008 reunion “Rehearsal for Heaven” appeared on the logo. Betsy explained that she got this theme from one of her Dad’s letter to her. This same logo appeared also on the button name tags, on the front of the registration folders, on the top of the Registration sheets, on the plastic drinking water bottles, and on the T-shirts.

At the worship service, before Manong Al offered the benediction, he gave a short spiritual message. There were some snacks after the worship, and many stayed awhile to visit some more with each other.

Rose provided hot pan de sal every morning, with other breakfast food too. Friday was a free-for-all day, with each one or family doing activities of their own choosing – going to attraction places, shopping, etc. Orville and Erli drove us (Pros and Charity were with us too) to the church so Rodel and I could practice our piano and organ duets for the church service the next day. Then we went back to the hotel to rest, and later Pros and I ate supper at an Italian restaurant.

The vespers service was held at the hotel’s Lord Jim Banquet Room. Alvin led the song service with Olive on the keyboard. Special numbers were instrumental duet by Mike Mirasol with his clarinet and Kylo with his saxophone, and a song solo by Sheryl Macaraeg. Pros gave some testimony or history of the three Roda brothers – how they were involved in the pioneering days of the Seventh-Day Adventist church in the Philippines, emphasizing the legacy started by them, hopefully to be kept on going. Manong Turing was the key speaker during the service (he also mentioned some history in addition to his message). The G-3 members sang the favorite song of Papang Alvaro, "Face to Face With Christ My Saviour."


Somehow before the vespers started, Pros was having chest pain and we had no medicines, and we didn’t know where to find a drug store on the way from our hotel to the Seven Seas. Thinking that his chest pain was caused by the food he ate, Pros called Manong Tommy asking where we could buy medicines. He said he had those medicines Pros asked for, so Manong Tommy brought along the medicines, which Pros took. When Manong Al arrived, he also had the medicines Pros wanted, so he gave to Pros and Pros took several. He had some relief, but he was so pale. I alerted Boy Arevalo about the condition of Pros so he could be on the look-out for his Uncle Pros. We feared that Pros was developing heart attack, so when it was time for Pros to do his part at the front, Cheryl requested Ng Pancing and Betsy to stand behind Pros while he was giving his “testimony.” When Manong Turing was doing his part, Ng Pancing approached me and asked if I had oxygen for Pros because she said Pros was having some difficulty breathing. So, Boy and I went to the front row where Pros was seated, to check on him. Pros said he was all right.

After the vespers, there were more exchange of greetings and visiting with each other before we all went back to the Hospitality Suite for light supper prepared by Rose and her associates. Pros continued to have chest pain and also pain on the back. He was massaged by Orville and Erika. Calina gave him 3 tablets of aspirin which at first Pros hesitated to take, saying he took already his daily dose of it, but Calina was able to persuade him to take the three tablets. When we were back at the hotel, Pros right away hit the bed and had a good sleep. In the morning when he woke up, he said he felt better with no more pains.

On Sabbath morning, after partaking of the continental breakfast served at the hotel, we left to go to the Fil-Am SDA Church where the participants for the Hour of Worship were all from the Roda clan: Sermon by Ann (Alne) on ”What Do You Expect?”, pianist was Rodel with me as the organist and Ng Cion as chorister, Andy gave Welcome Remarks, Betsy gave the Children’s story with the aid of puppets which was enjoyed by young and old, Mike Mirasol played his clarinet during offertory accompanied by Rose on the piano, Edwina played the French Horn accompanied by her Mom Betty and Orly sang a solo and played the violin accompanied by Cora on the piano, Boy Arevalo gave the scripture reading and intercessory prayer, Cecile sang a solo for the special number with her Mom Cora on the piano.

After the church service, we joined the church members at the potluck lunch held at the Fellowship Hall. There was food galore. It was good to meet other friends especially the sisters of Loree (Tita Rada, Marlene and Nida Villanueva) and Manong Nestor & Manang Zelle Zamora.

Then we rested for a while before the afternoon program. I helped Art and Jojo prepare pictures of the departed members to be shown as a slide show in the afternoon program. In my photo albums I had only pictures of the Alvaro family members, but I was able to get pictures from Ng Lydia, Rodel, Betty and Cora for members from their families. I put up the Roda Family Tree on the front wall with the help of Mike Mirasol, and Siena and Aaron helped me tape some pieces that were loose.

We went back to the church sanctuary for the afternoon program. After the musical parts, Betsy started with recollecting stories of the past and the story of the sack of rice was continued and finished by Manong Al, and Pros followed with the story of the 2 gallons of water. Thinking that Manang Esther was the oldest member present, she was given time to talk and recollect. Then the “In Remembrance Of” slide show of the departed members was presented: first was the group picture showing five brothers = Sergio, Leon, Alvaro, Antonino and Rosario; followed by pictures of Papang Alvaro & Mamang Memang, Tata Tony & Nana Mameng, Manang Ely & husband Walter Roeder, Manong David, Manong Calion Zarate, Manong Andrew Edwin, Manong Ben Sanidad, and Manong Johnny. Unintentionally, not shown in pictures were Manang Norma Tauro Roda, Sandra Roda Slayter, Tata Leon and Nana Maria.

“Lighting Generation Candles” followed. Alne had six white candles on a table at the front, to represent the six generations. She called Manang Esther to represent the first and second generations, thus lighting the first candle, then lighting the second candle. All the third generation (G-3) present were called to the front (Charity, Pros, Cion, Pancing, Rodel, Esther, Ng Lydia represented Manong Poncing, Charing, Kate represented Nong David, Al and Beb. Turing had stepped out). Presumed being the oldest, Ng Esther was also the one who lighted the candle representing the G-3 group.

Next, the G-4 group was called to the front and Cora as the oldest, lighted the candle representing the group. The Generation 5 (G-5) was led by Donn Torres as the oldest in the group, thus he lighted the candle representing the group. The Generation 6 had Zachary Ravadilla lighting the candle for their group. Then the Generations 5 and 6 were asked to line the middle aisle of the church while the rest of the family members stood on the sides along the inner ends of the pew, and they placed their hands on the shoulders of the Generations 5 and 6 members while prayer was offered by Manong Al blessing these younger generations. It was a solemn time and very touching.

From the church, we went back to the Fellowship Hall for the big buffet supper prepared mainly by Manang Cion, Manang Pancing and Rose with help of others. There was abundance of food with several kinds of “kakanins.” Each table for eating was covered with plastic blue tablecloth with a smaller square tablecloth in red or in yellow over the center, and there was a vase of flowers on each table too.

The 50th wedding anniversary of Manong Al and Ng Nellie was celebrated with thick layers of sampaguita leis for each of them as they went to the front, a wedding anniversary cake, and their granddaughter Ayla singing “Dahil Sa ‘Yo” accompanied by Manong Nestor on the keyboard. Giant chocolate bars with special made to order Giant HERSHEY BAR covers created expressly for the 50th Anniversary occasion, were distributed to all, compliments of the Zamoras – the same ones they distributed at the real anniversary celebration last June 15 in Maryland.

The August birthday celebrants had also their own birthday cake and they were called to the front stating their ages: Kylo Cautivar, Paz Ravadilla, Wayne Corros, Eddie, and Carol. Going to be 85 years old in September 27, Manong Turing was included as a special birthday celebrant. We all sang the birthday song for the celebrants.

The Roda Family Celebration Time followed, starting with me explaining the Family Tree (on a white felt backdrop measuring 70 inches wide and 105 inches high). I made a similar one 9 years ago for the first reunion which was made of paper. This time I used felt for everything – thanks to an earlier suggestion from Calina. Within the last nine years, there were several additions to the family either by marriage or by birth (and a few deaths), so I had to update the tree. Names of divorced spouses were in brackets, plus an “S” for those Separated, and the letter “D” followed the names of deceased members. The main light brown trunk of the big tree represents the patriarch Juan Demaya Roda (G-1) and the twelve light brown big branches with red-numbered names represents his children (three from his first wife and 9 from his second wife) = these are the second generation. The 25 names of the third generation are on dark brown felt and the 68 fourth generations are on dark green felt. The 93 names of the fifth generation are on light green leaves and the 22 names of the sixth generation are on dark pink buds or fruits. The two set of twins (Sanidads and Bautistas) appears with two light green leaf attached at the base while 3 babies on the way had a picture of a baby on the light green leaf or on the dark pink bud for Baby Myers (Vanessa Corros & Arthur Myers), Baby Sinco (Ray Sinco & Beatrice Paterson), and Baby Girl Roda (Darrell & Shar). A 4th baby on the way is Baby Ravadilla (Alan Ravadilla & Kathy Miranda). There is a total of 221 names in the Tree. I also explained the connection of the family to the Edralins and to the former President Marcos.

113 were present at the reunion. Everyone participated on the next part, the “introductions time” – where families were called by Cheryl to the front, and each one introduced himself/herself, stating where they live and telling “something your parents don’t know about you.”

1. Betty & Edwin Rao and daughter Edwina

2. Cora & Lito Coo, daughter Cecile Cruz with children Sophia and Elisha

3. Tita’s family was complete, with husband Romie, sons Donn and Val, Val’s wife Andrea and their daughter Sydney Grace Torres
4. Fe & Fiel Poblete, their daughter Andrea and granddaughter Alexandra
5. Boie and Helen Arevalo
6. Emiline & Wilson Corros and son Wayne

7. Sylvia & Alex Ramirez, daughter Sharon and their son Allen
8. Annie Arevalo

Photo left: Edwina Rao and Andrea Poblete; Photo right: Sophia Cruz and Alexandra Poblete

NOTE THAT ALL THE SEVEN AREVALO CHILDREN WERE PRESENT!
L-R: Ng Lydia, Andy & wife Loree, Andrea, Alfonso, Ellysa; Chloe (daughter of) Michelle & Reginald (and son Sebastien)
9. Ng Lydia Roda, son Andy & wife Loree with their 3 children: Alfonso, Andrea & Ellysa; son Reginald & wife Michelle with their children Chloe & Sebastien.
BONG, MITCHI, CHLOE & SEBASTIEN WORE MATCHING OUTFITS OF BLUE FABRIC WITH THE SAME DESIGN.

10. Nong Turing & Manang Masing Roda, with children Carol and Eddie


11. Manang Kate & Werner Hildebrand, with three children and their families (THEIR FAMILY WAS COMPLETE):


Betsy & Rodney Jabola, and their son Andrew;
Greg & Franca Roda;
Beverly & Mike Zumpano, with their 3 children = Michael, Meagan & Danielle

12. Ng Esther Sanidad with two children and their families:
Orly & Josie Sanidad
Paz & Ed Ravadilla, daughters Ria and Irene, Irene’s husband Apollo Semella and
their sons Zachary and Trystan
Granddaughter Sheryl Macaraeg

13. Ng Charing Zerate with daughters Calina and Zally & husband Sam Schulstad

14. Manong Al & Ng Nellie Roda, Alne & Jose Hernandez, Alvin & Erika Roda and their daughters Ayla, Brielle and Celine. THEIR FAMILY WAS COMPLETE!

15. Ng Cion & Nong Tommy Mirasol = THEIR FAMILY WAS ALSO COMPLETE!
Art & Karen Mirasol and children Daniel and Aaron
Rose Mirasol

Mike & Luella Mirasol and children Siena and Luke

16. Ng Pancing Idrisalman with daughters and families:
Erli & Orville Cautivar, children Kylo, Kenneth and Kalee;
Leri and daughter Irel Idrisalman
THEIR FAMILY WAS ALSO COMPLETE AND THEY WERE ALL IN RED!

17. Pros & Lou Roda, with daughter Cheryl Wu and her three sons = Kevin, Justin and Brian
(5 year old Justin and even 2-year old Brian introduced themselves!)
18. Beb Bautista and daughter Olive with two sons = Rico and Marco

19. Leon (Jojo) & Alisa Roda and their children Andrew and Kara
20. Rodel Meier
21. Charity Lim

After the introductions, we were entertained by the Roda Orchestra organized and conducted by Alvin, composed of: Irel (cello), Kylo (saxophone), Rico (saxophone), Mike Mirasol (clarinet), Andrew Roda (trumpet), Fonz (guitar), Donn (bass), Cecille (violin), Edwina (French horn), and Celine (drums). We enjoyed listening to the several songs they played.


The midget skit was a fun part. This was organized by Olive, with Wayne Corros and Andrea Poblete as narrators. Ayla, Brielle, Celine, Siena, Rico and Marco did their parts well. You have to be present to enjoy it. Next we were entertained by the interpretive dance performed by Sharon Ramirez on “I Wanna Dance with Somebody.”

Ayee lead a short business meeting and it was voted to have the family reunion every three years, with the next one in Toronto in 2011.

Bouquets of roses were given by Alne & Jose in appreciation: to Ayee for starting the ball rolling in planning for the reunion; to Betsy for being the over-all Coordinator of the whole reunion, to Rose for all the help in coordinating as well as preparing the registration folders and taking care of snacks, light supper and daily breakfast, etc; to Cheryl for helping behind the scenes and coordinating the Sabbath evening program; to Lou for taking time to do the Family Tree; to Ng Cion and Ng Pancing for doing a lot of cooking starting two or three weeks before the date of the reunion; to Alvin for being in charge of music. Cheryl recognized Art, Jojo and Greg's contribution. NOTE THAT THE TWO DENTISTS IN THE FAMILY ARE ALSO PROFESSIONAL PHOTOGRAPHERS = Jojo and Greg were busy in the back room taking pictures of each family and each individual, complete with backdrop cloth and two umbrellas just like you see at photo studios! Art helped in putting the pictures together, with the plan of having the Family Tree in pictures. I can’t wait to see their finished product.

All the 100 T-shirts ordered, with the Roda reunion logo on the front, got sold (one saved to be kept in archives), and all five books of “The Gift of Choice” that Pros and I took along, were given away. A basket was passed around for donations for expenses and a good sum was collected.



To close the evening’s program, we all gathered in a big circle and while holding hands we sang “Blest Be the Tie That Binds”. After the first stanza, I took the microphone and lead in singing the last stanza by vocalizing the words or sentences followed by all singing it. The words of the last stanza are very fitting to end the affair:

“As we asunder part
It gives us inward pain,
But we shall still be joined in heart
And hope to meet again.”



The night's event was closed with the prayer offered by Alne. While the tables, chairs and everything were being cleared, the children enjoyed doing tinikling (Cheryl and Donn were supposed to do this during the program) with Emiline playing the music on the piano and Wilson directing them how to do it. My grandsons Kevin and Justin participated while 2 year old Brian watched for a long time, and finally participated too! I had fun watching him.

Sunday morning, everyone gathered at the Hospitality Suite for the hot pan de sal and other food and to say their goodbyes. The scheduled picnic had been canceled, so everyone went their own way.

In the afternoon, Pros, Rodel, Charity and I drove to Abner & Eleanor Velasco’s residence at Murrieta to meet with some of the Color Family friends of ours. Mando & Leni Espiritu who are friends also of Rodel and Charity, were there. Romie & Tita were there too – in their T-shirts with the family reunion logo on the front. I showed to the Colors the Family Tree that I made and they were interested.

On Monday, after breakfast, Rodel and Charity checked out of the hotel and we (Kuya Ben, my sister Emmeline, Pros and I) drove them to Riverside where they checked in at the Fairfield Inn to spend time with some friends of theirs for a few days. Rodel treated us to a nice restaurant before we left. Since it was still early when we dropped them off, the four of us decided to visit Mando at the City of Hope where he had his second chemo embolization treatment. He was just admitted to his room (post treatment) when we arrived there.

On Tuesday morning, Pros and I relaxed in our hotel room and I did some packing. In the afternoon, we went again to the Mirasols’ residence and I walked three houses away to see their neighbors, Romen & Linda Rivera, but they were not home. When Kuya Ben and Emmeline arrived, we went to visit the grave of my mother at the Glen Abbey Cemetery situated next to the Fil-Am SDA church. Then we went to buy some Filipino desserts to take back home and some food to take back to the Mirasols where we had supper. Jose & Alne, Erika, Brielle and Celine were there and after supper they left to catch their flights. After supper and visiting with the Mirasols (Art and family and Mike and family were still there) we also said our goodbyes.

Wednesday morning was our flight back to the Washington D.C. airport where Darrell and family met us. We arrived back home to Tappahannock past midnight.

Looking back at the reunion, I am glad Betsy thought of “Rehearsal for Heaven” as the theme of the reunion. I saw with my own eyes, forgiveness in action – it made the theme more meaningful to me! The purposes of the reunion broken down to four “R’s by Betsy (and printed on the souvenir magnets given out, compliments of Art) were met = Remember, Recognize, Relate, and Renew. We now look forward to the next reunion in Toronto in 2011.